My daughter had a reunion recently with a Currambena friend, who moved on to one of the other local schools at the end of last year. It was a beautiful sunny day and ever fearful of any juvenile disturbance to my pristine domestic environment (you know what it is like with three young
children in the house - all vaccumed carpets, well-made beds and healthy snacks lined up along the kitchen bench) we decided to make this an outside play and took the dog for a long walk around Blackman Park. I followed the two girls as they walked, half listening to their chatter as they renewed their acquaintance. I was fascinated as they began to compare their respective school days. Like any normal parent, I am always looking for clues that my decisions for my children are the right ones. Like any realistic parent, I kind of secretly know that I won’t get an answer until they are about 40 years old and have finished their therapy.
In the meantime, I piece together what scraps I can find. The girls compared notes on friends, on start times, on pick up routines, then moved on to the nitty gritty of the eternal education debate: school uniforms versus wear-what-you-like; school meetings as opposed to school assemblies, merit badges and point systems, compared to - ummm, well - no merit badges or points systems.
At the end of our second circling of the park, the dog was done in, but they were still chatting away, debating in a friendly and exploratory manner, until that is, they reached an enormous, incredibly muddy puddle.
Both girls knew what to do. They removed their shoes and socks and waded into the dark, murky water that even the Labrador had turned his nose up at. It was cold and wet, but helped settled the matter at least in my daughter’s mind. ‘Do you know?’ asked her friend, ‘at my school you have to wear socks all day’. ‘Wow’ said Chloe, ‘that must be exhausting!’. ‘Yes’, came the reply, ‘Yes, it is.’
The matter was settled. Chloe is happy where she is and she won’t move for anyone, not if it means wearing socks all day.
Posted May 28th, 2008
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by Kirsten
Jamie , Tilly and Oliver’ s Dad, has volunteered to coach his son’ s soccer team as part of the Lane Cove Football Club.
It’s his second week into the season, and according to our correspondent on the ground, like a true Currambena Dad, Jamie has so far focused on sitting in a circle, building team spirit and reminding the players (aged 3 - 5yrs) that it is, after all, only a game. Most of the other coaches have their charges tearing up and down the ground, working on ball skills and practicing their ‘dives in the penalty area’ .
Could the Currambena approach eventually revolutionise the World Game?
We’ d have fewer red cards and a lot more discussion of how it makes you feel when someone goes for your legs, not the ball and gets away with it. Or how threatening it can be for the poor goal keeper forced to face a penalty shoot out, all alone in the huge goal and everyone cheering for the other lot.
Australia’ s bidding to host the World Cup in 2018 . Is this a business opportunity for Currambena and Fran and Chris’s conflict resolution course?
I think someone should make a submission?
Posted March 26th, 2008
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by juliannam
Easter this week - what a clever idea - two weeks before the end of
term, we have a little ‘practice’ holiday so that we can find out how
we will manage with the full time care of our children, without the
support and distraction of their teachers, and the endless resources
of the craft room.
To spice up the challenge, we get to fire the little darlings up with
chocolate. Should be a laugh!
As a mother who is still on detention at parenting school for letting
down the side during the summer holidays and resorting to sports camp
and cocktails to get the family through the last couple of weeks, I,
for one, appreciate this trial run.
Here’s hoping - and if it all goes horribly wrong, we know we can
bring them back to school on Tuesday.
Posted March 19th, 2008
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by juliannam
The other morning in Fran’s class, I was having one of those over-enthusiastic, extra-friendly, welcome-to-our-community chats with one of this term’s new children, who quite frankly wanted to ditch me to build a cubby/play football/do some handwriting practice but who was clearly too well brought up to make his break for freedom.
Luke has lived most of his life in San Francisco and was telling me how his parents have decided that it’s time to settle back in their native Australia. ‘Oh how lovely, Luke’, I cooed welcomingly, ‘does this mean that you’ll live forever in Australia?’
His frustration was palpable. What kind of sheltered life had this woman been living? Was he going to have to teach her everything?
‘Well,’ he said with as much patience as a six-year-old can muster ‘I don’t think I can live forever. There are things that I can’t control.’ He paused. ‘I hope we will be living in Sydney for a long time, though, yes.’
Never patronise a six year old.
When I mentioned to Luke that I was going to quote him in this week’s blog, he wanted to share two pieces of information about himself that he says are actually more interesting. ‘I like kumquat. I really like it. I have lots and lots of it for treats. And chlorine doesn’t hurt my bruises when I put my legs in the water.
Thank you Luke. And welcome to Currambena.
Posted March 12th, 2008
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by Kirsten
Last year we had a surf lesson excursion. Parent and photographer Jo Reynolds http://www.littlefeetphotography.com.au/ took some beautiful photos. You can see a selection here on the website or at her flickr collection of photo’s.
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Posted March 10th, 2008
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by admin
Currambena life….
We’ve started a blog at www.currambena.nsw.edu.au - if there is anything you’d like to get off your chest about school, or just life, let me know on kirsten@kirstenlees.com. In the meantime, here is my tuppence worth for the week.
I was rushing back from work on Monday to pick my children up from after school care before they had polished off all the golden syrup (no need for bread, it is just a distraction) when I had one of those moments of public horror that freeze you in time and make you - momentarily at least - want to move interstate.
I stood up to get off the bus as it approached the school, and whether it was my over-stuffed workbag bag, unaccustomed high heels, or just the light-headedness any mother gets when she has had seven full hours of adult company without a nappy to change or the need to stop and explain to a four-year-old where babies come from and whether it is in fact a good idea or big mistake, but I was a bit unsteady on my feet.
The bus jerked to a halt and my bag went flying. Notebooks, pens, grimy stubs of lipstick, mobile phone and the forgotten debris of numerous confiscated party-bags went flying.
Lane Cove is a friendly place. The bus filled with a kind of well-meaning murmur of sympathy and understanding as a dozen pairs of hands reached under seats and into the aisle gathering together the scattered contents.
Then it happened. Silence. A pair of eyes met mine. I looked down to where a hand that had hovered helpfully over the last item froze mid air, then withdrew. Lying on the floor in full view of all was the head-lice comb.
Not one of these plastic, use-once-after-all-every-child-gets-the-occasional-parasite, head-lice combs. I am talking an industrial strength, heavy duty piece of equipment, designed to tackle the kind of head-lice that has evolved complete immunity over generations of chemical warfare. I am not sure, but there may have even been the dismembered body of a lifeless louse still caught between the comb’s teeth as it lay on the floor of the 253 from the QVB.
What kind of parent needs a tool like that? What kind of mother needs to have a lice comb with her at all times?- and above all, the silent crowd screamed, which school do her children go to?
I picked up the comb. I wasn’t going to be phased by tuts of disapproval - real or imagined. I’ve read the articles, listened to the talk-back radio shows, and downloaded reams of comforting information from the web. It is not just my children. It is not just our school. It is not because their hair is dirty, or their parents neglectful. It is not their friends, or their friend’s families, or the fact that recent water restrictions have been a perfect excuse to avoid the struggle on hairwashing nights.
I stepped off the bus, glanced sideways to Currambena, then strode with confidence in the opposite direction, through the conveniently-placed gates of a nearby school.
I could double back and get my girls when the bus had gone!
Posted March 5th, 2008
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by juliannam
It was the last night of the Year Six leavers camp and we were getting ready for the ceremony that I had looked forward to the whole entire year.
I went inside my tent and laughed at the umbrella held up by bra straps to stop the rain dripping on us in the night. I was overjoyed - the torrential rain had stopped which meant we would be able to have the ceremony on the beach not under the sheltered area. Then disappointment came over me again - the usual pitter- patter of rain on the tent started again. I heard Wendy’s voice calling “Meeting.” So I put on my raincoat and went to the meeting area which was hard to fit in since there were 30 people trying to fit under one tarpaulin with 3 picnic tables too. (Wendy was our teacher,) At the meeting Wendy gave the adults instructions on how to look after and get the Year Fives ready for the ceremony. She then gathered all of the Year Sixes to go to the undercover area where we were having the ceremony.
When we got there we built a fire. It started getting dark which meant the ceremony would start soon. Then I remembered I had forgotten my symbol to symbolise my years at Currambena. My Symbol was a boomerang that I found on my first school camp in year four. I chose it because when you throw a boomerang it always comes back to you and my memories of Currambena will always come back to me until the day I die. When I got back the fire was roaring. Wendy asked who would go first. Nobody would go first so I decided I would. It was really dark now and the only thing that stopped it from being pitch black was our fire then suddenly there was a bang of drums which meant the ceremony had just started.
Then finally came the long line of candles which was the most wonderful experience of my life. All we could hear were the waves down on the beach and the slow rhythmic sound of the drums and all we could see was a long row of floating candles. I sat down on the camp chair where we were going to sit while we gave our speech. This was it. The moment I had been waiting for for years. Everyone sat down and I started to speak.
It was now my best friend Annabel’s turn to speak. She was the last person. I listened to her very carefully and thought about us being at school together for nine years and now being split apart and before i knew it there were tears rolling down my face. I looked at my friend Abby who was sitting next to me. She looked at me then Annabel and then started crying. I leaned into her. Annabel had finished and now we got to tell her how much we would miss her. She picked me first and as soon as she saw me she started to cry which made me cry even more. I told her that I felt like I was a fourth child in her family and that her house was like a home away from home for me and that it didn’t matter that we were going to be at different high schools because we’ll still be friends.
We went back to camp. When we got there Wendy gave us a big hug. We went and got ready for bed and got into bed and soon enough all I could hear was Annabel’s soft breathing and the pitter-patter of the rain on the tent and then my eyelids felt heavy and then it was dark and I was asleep.
By Georgia Hammett.
Posted March 5th, 2008
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by wendyp
My favourite aspect of camp was the Giant Swing because it felt like you were flying and the free fall was really scary. It felt as if you were going to fall.
Camp could have been better if the food had been better quality because it sometimes wasn’t that cooked and it wasn’t always the food that we wanted.
I would recommend Mangrove Mountain Retreat for other groups because the Flying Fox is fun (you feel like a bat) and the Giant Swing was great. It also has good bushland there.
Posted February 27th, 2008
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by admin
We are starting a Currambena blog “Life at Currambena” on currambena.nsw.edu.au. See “The Elephant in the Schoolyard” for the first post.
Posted February 27th, 2008
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by admin
I love the fact that Currambena is democratic. I love the fact that this means the children the teachers and the parents get together to tussle over the nitty gritty of school life. From what to learn, where to learn it and whether to learn it while eating lunch on top of the monkey bars with balloons up their jumpers - all issues get a good airing.
But there is an elephant in the schoolyard. A big issue that remains untackled, barely mentioned, but that reveals itself in the tired and haunted eyes of parents and teachers at preschool and primary alike when it comes to home time.
Shoes.
Like many Currambena children, my girls wear shoes to school everyday. They wear one on each foot. Often matching. They sometimes wear socks, not necessarily a pair, but I make sure the holes aren’t showing and that they occasionally get to see the inside of a washing machine.
But when it comes to home time, their feet are bare, and their shoes are nowhere to be seen. Somehow as they travel the winding road that is their educational journey they toss aside their footwear. No problem, whatever it takes to get them where they need to be, I say. But that is without the afternoon ritual searching sandpits and school rooms for disguarded sandals.
Sometimes we leave without. Sometimes we improvise with bits of string and craft room cast offs, often we find shoes so long lost that the children who wore them have long since moved on. Occasionally we find the shoes we are looking for - or come across a pair we had given up ever seeing again.
So if you see my children leaving school in the afternoon, with grins on their faces but nothing on their feet - its not the late seventies free-love and no-footwear philosophy of democratic education, nor is it because we have sacrificed shoes to pay school fees, it is simply that they have taken so much on board during the day about life, about friends about all that they get in school, that they have had to put down their shoes to carry it all.
I desperately hope.
If you want to blog about anything that is going on at school - let me know - Kirsten
Posted February 27th, 2008
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by Kirsten